CHOOSING A PARTNER (POST 1)

The act of choosing the right partner for a love affair seems easy, but it is indeed the most important thing to get right and the first obstacle we encounter on our route to a love affair.

This obstacle is one of the reasons why most relationships and marriages that kicked off with so much love and affection no longer exist today. Therefore, your choice of partner is like the key you need to start a new car. Each car has a unique key, which can start it and propel it forward. Likewise, each one has a unique person who can make one feel loved first and then give one the strength to love in return. Mark the phrase “feel loved first” because how you feel in your new affair is what determines how you will react to your new partner.

But do you know that most of the time we feel excitements at the beginning of our relationships or marriages? Keep in mind that most of the love affairs or marriages that ended in divorce started with excitement, love, and affection. Now, how do we choose our partner in order to reduce the risk of starting a relationship with the wrong person?