Sources of Distraction (The Sting)
Use this point for your final check with respect to some of the things you hate about your spouse. Ask yourself this question:
Can you cope with those things?
Little things can put us off in a relationship. What puts you off? Are there things your prospective spouse does that make you sad? Does your prospective spouse have hard rules to some of the things you do and he or she would not budge or change any, even if you asked him or her to? How does your prospective spouse use his or her phone, computer, and other electronic gadgets in your presence? How does your prospective spouse interact with you in your good and bad moods? Find an answer to each of these questions and you will know whether to spend your future with him or her. The truth is that some bad habits sting like a bee. In other words, they hurt the heart, mind, and head. Talk to your prospective spouse about the need to stop any off-putting habit if you think it is the only thing that stands between both of you.
Rule 1: You must be sure that you can cope with the bad habits of your prospective spouse before you can make your final decision.
Rule 2: Don’t think that you can make your prospective spouse discard his or her bad habits when both of you are married. It may be impossible after marriage to change what you could not when you were in a relationship with him or her.
I like how Rule 1 and Rule 2 applies a lot in case of marriages for addictions or some habit of partner.
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That’s it. We must consider every option to get the best of what we want.
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Are you a right brain kind ?
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I don’t understand that Please? Could you refrain it?
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Do you like to analyse life a lot ?
– Weighing the options, sorting them and then prioritizing as per the outcome you get.
Our brains are divided into two parts and it is believed that right brain helps in the analytical processing, if you deal life analytical, you might be right brain. But that’s only if you deal it that way. Do you ?
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Yes, I like to analyze life and any situation I am in. It makes me to make predictions and work towards a particular goal. And you?
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Totally alike. 🙂
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cool.
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