Fear of spending time with the wrong person
Fear takes control of you when you occupy your mind with the idea that no matter what happens your relationship will end up in divorce, which is nowadays rampant in the society. With this mindset, you will assume that everyone is the same and you do not have control of how your relationship will go, no matter who your spouse is. Your relationship is doomed from the beginning when you make your choice based on this idea because you will rather be making a way for your smooth exit instead of doing your best to make it work. You will handle your spouse by using your brain instead of by using your heart. What that means is that you will be more calculative than romantic towards your spouse.