LOVE QUOTE OF THE DAY

 

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Stick with love because it’s a lot easier to carry about than hate.

Stick with love because you can smile all day by just seeing the ones you love.

Stick with love because hate can make you feel bad about yourself.

Stick with love because hate can make you hurt another.

 

 

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THURSDAY’S LOVE NUGGET

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Going to a cinema or a show with your partner, even though you don’t really want to see the film or the show yourself.

 

A small, caring gesture.

 

It’s an act of kindness that can make your partner feel that you are considerate.

A small act like that can help demonstrate unselfishness.

It can show commitment, improve communication, achieve compromise, and even resolve conflicts.

Above all, it can show that you care.

 

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Vulnerability in a Relationship

 

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Vulnerability is seen as a weakness, but it can be an advantage in a relationship because it gives a couple the opportunities to show who they are without fear of being hurt or taken advantage of.

In other words, vulnerability is your willingness to allow your partner to see you the way you are without making them feel the need to do anything about it.

The positive side of it is when your partner allows you to be who you are and takes you for it. You do not have to tell them everything about you before they can tell who you are. But they need to work towards being intimate with you to make you to be willing to allow them see every part of you, and what you are capable of.

Someone who is not close to you or who does not have confidence in you may not want to show you everything about them. So, how you relate with your partner will definitely affect how they will lean towards you.

 

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TODAY’S LOVE NUGGET

 

Romantic couple drinking tea in front of lit fireplace

 

Making a cup of tea for one’s partner.

 

A small, caring gesture.

 

This is just one of a number of little acts of kindness that can help a relationship thrive.

According to the OnePlusOne charity, such small acts “demonstrate commitment, improve communication, show we care, achieve compromise and even resolve conflicts”.

All that just from giving someone a cup of tea they probably didn’t want in the first place?

What if you hate each other? Wouldn’t it just be annoying?

 

The idea is to prevent the problems that lead to marital breakdown by keeping your partnership strong.

 

Courtesy of Guardian News & Media Ltd

 

Blogger Recognition Award

I was nominated for The Blogger Recognition Award, by a wonderful blogger, Timelesswheel, whose posts I enjoy reading always. Thank you so much for nominating me. I am honored that you thought of me for this award, and it gave me so much joy.

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Now, I want to pass on the award to fellow bloggers whom I admire for their talent and skill in their unique passion.

These are the rules:

  1. Thank the person that nominated you and include a link to their blog.
  2. Nominate at least 15 bloggers of your choice. When considering a fellow blogger for the Versatile Blogger Award, keep in mind the quality of their writing, the uniqueness of their subject matter and the level of love displayed on the virtual page.
  3. Link your nominees and let them know about their nomination.
  4. Share seven facts about yourself.

7 Facts About Me:

  1. I write and read everyday
  2. I am a christian
  3. I am an engineer
  4. I am an author
  5. I am very optimistic about life
  6. I like to smile
  7. I like chess game.

The following nominees are those whom I want to recognize their talent through this award.

For now I have:

The Human Touch

The Jaguar

Giggles and Tales

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Your success inspirer

Laura

Stealing Quiet Time in Noisy Disorder

Hira

Lisaslarsen

Ma Socorro

Voce e tocavel

Whispers in the wind

Relish

Micah le LannTM

Seeking you

Dear Nominees, it has been a pleasure to read your blogs, and I enjoy coming back and reading your posts regularly. Please note that you are not under any obligation to accept this award.

Interaction (Romance)

 

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You may like to talk to your partner but your manner of expression and the content of what you say matter a lot.

Your ability to be romantic to your partner in terms of your tone and gestures make positive impacts, which have the effect of stringing them towards you. In other words, using a gentle voice, infectious eye-contacts, and tender strokes can help direct the attention of your partner and make them react in a way beneficial to you.

Give your partner a unique name if you can because how you call and approach them can either put them in a relaxing or tensed mood, depending on how you go about it.

The idea is for both of you to fall in love with each other and become inseparable because only on that platform you can see yourselves as one, and be more inclined to making amends rather than calling it quits in times of disagreements.

 

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My community post “Write Anything Wednesday”, organised by Writerishramblings

The versatile Blogger Award

I was nominated for The Versatile Blogger Award, by a wonderful blogger, Laura, whose posts I enjoy reading always. Thank you so much for nominating me. I am honored that you thought of me for this award, and it gave me so much joy.

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Now, I want to pass on the award to fellow bloggers whom I admire for their talent and skill in their unique passion.

These are the rules:

  1. Thank the person that nominated you and include a link to their blog.
  2. Nominate at least 15 bloggers of your choice. When considering a fellow blogger for the Versatile Blogger Award, keep in mind the quality of their writing, the uniqueness of their subject matter and the level of love displayed on the virtual page.
  3. Link your nominees and let them know about their nomination.
  4. Share seven facts about yourself.

7 Facts About Me:

  1. I write and read everyday
  2. I am a christian
  3. I am an engineer
  4. I am an author
  5. I am very optimistic about life
  6. I like to smile
  7. I like chess game.

The following nominees are those whom I want to recognize their talent through this award.

For now I have:

Fleeting Muse

Blogmaniac

Giggles and Tales

Laura Lecce’s art and photography

ddr_74

Ramblings of an old soul

Dear Nominees, it has been a pleasure to read your blogs, and I enjoy coming back and reading your posts regularly. Please note that you are not under any obligation to accept this award. I know that this is a time commitment.

She loved them but couldn’t date any of them (Short Story)

Jane, Steve, and Simon, were friends since childhood.

They were so close that they ended up studying the same course in the same university.

Jane liked Steve and Simon very much, and she suddenly realized that she was interested in both of them.

Steve and Simon also wanted her as much as she wanted them, but the truth was that each of them was afraid of what the outcome would be since they were like a brother to her.

One day, Jane introduced Stephan to Steve and Simon as her new boyfriend. But the truth was that she did not like Stephan as much as she liked them.

If you were Steve or Simon, what would you have done before she had a boyfriend?

And if you were Jane, what would you have done before you chose to take Stephan as your boyfriend?

 

I welcome your opinions. Thank you.

 

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How do you interact so that your relationship or marriage can move forward? (Final Part)

 

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To interact effectively, you must first do the following:

Respect

Respect means having a high opinion of your partner, or making the person feel valued. It does not mean making them feel stupid around you. It does not mean making them feel the need to change who they are, or the need to become who you want them to be.

Respect has to be about who the person is, not who you wish they were. Your idea about them can affect the way you feel about them. And how you feel about someone can affect how you speak to them, or how you treat them.

The tone of your voice and your choice of words constitute the differences between respect and disrespect. You cannot tell someone to get lost and still claim that you have respect for them. You cannot yell at them and still have the same view that you respect them.

Your ability to attract your partner towards you after every conversation without having to apologize to them for anything is a good indication that you are respectful.

 

Stay tuned for the next post on interaction.

 

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