Romantic couple drinking tea in front of lit fireplace


Making a cup of tea for one’s partner.


A small, caring gesture.


This is just one of a number of little acts of kindness that can help a relationship thrive.

According to the OnePlusOne charity, such small acts “demonstrate commitment, improve communication, show we care, achieve compromise and even resolve conflicts”.

All that just from giving someone a cup of tea they probably didn’t want in the first place?

What if you hate each other? Wouldn’t it just be annoying?


The idea is to prevent the problems that lead to marital breakdown by keeping your partnership strong.


Courtesy of Guardian News & Media Ltd


Blogger Recognition Award

I was nominated for The Blogger Recognition Award, by a wonderful blogger, Timelesswheel, whose posts I enjoy reading always. Thank you so much for nominating me. I am honored that you thought of me for this award, and it gave me so much joy.


Now, I want to pass on the award to fellow bloggers whom I admire for their talent and skill in their unique passion.

These are the rules:

  1. Thank the person that nominated you and include a link to their blog.
  2. Nominate at least 15 bloggers of your choice. When considering a fellow blogger for the Versatile Blogger Award, keep in mind the quality of their writing, the uniqueness of their subject matter and the level of love displayed on the virtual page.
  3. Link your nominees and let them know about their nomination.
  4. Share seven facts about yourself.

7 Facts About Me:

  1. I write and read everyday
  2. I am a christian
  3. I am an engineer
  4. I am an author
  5. I am very optimistic about life
  6. I like to smile
  7. I like chess game.

The following nominees are those whom I want to recognize their talent through this award.

For now I have:

The Human Touch

The Jaguar

Giggles and Tales


Your success inspirer


Stealing Quiet Time in Noisy Disorder



Ma Socorro

Voce e tocavel

Whispers in the wind


Micah le LannTM

Seeking you

Dear Nominees, it has been a pleasure to read your blogs, and I enjoy coming back and reading your posts regularly. Please note that you are not under any obligation to accept this award.

Interaction (Romance)




You may like to talk to your partner but your manner of expression and the content of what you say matter a lot.

Your ability to be romantic to your partner in terms of your tone and gestures make positive impacts, which have the effect of stringing them towards you. In other words, using a gentle voice, infectious eye-contacts, and tender strokes can help direct the attention of your partner and make them react in a way beneficial to you.

Give your partner a unique name if you can because how you call and approach them can either put them in a relaxing or tensed mood, depending on how you go about it.

The idea is for both of you to fall in love with each other and become inseparable because only on that platform you can see yourselves as one, and be more inclined to making amends rather than calling it quits in times of disagreements.


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My community post “Write Anything Wednesday”, organised by Writerishramblings