What Happens Next After An Argument With Your Partner?




After an argument with your partner, do not withdraw into a protective but uncomfortable bubble where you say things like “I will never bother you again from this day onward, or stay away from me, okay?”

In such a mode, you will end up keeping malice with your partner for a while, treating him or her with lack of commitment, or detaching gradually by giving your time to something new.

The danger of taking such an ugly stance in your relationship is that you may never be the same again when you step out of your uncomfortable safe-haven. Such behaviour will send the wrong message to your partner, and for that reason the person may withdraw from you. The consequence is a partner who does not care for you anymore.

Be careful with your utterances in times of arguments with your partner. There’s the tendency that your partner will reflect on whatever word you have uttered, and that might help the person to know exactly what he or she is worth in your life.


This Blog post is for the entry “Write Anything Wednesday“, the Daily Post Community Event, organized by Writerishramblings

Reason to Believe (Daily Prompt)




I thought I knew how to blog when I started blogging, but no I didn’t.

I thought by becoming a blogger I would have followers instantly, but it’s more than that.

I thought blogging was all about making a post, but it’s more than that.

I thought each post will attract many likes, but on Day 1 I had 1.

I thought I would have so much time for other things, but blogging needs time

I have a different song after joining blogging 101.

I have a beautiful site, and now I can do a lot.

I have followers, and I myself am a follower.

I post, reply to comments, and then visit other blogs.

I have had many likes, at least it’s now more than 1.

I do other things, but I have time to blog.

My new status gives me a reason to believe that I will grow.

Daily Prompt (Blogging 101)

I Love Poetry (Blogging 101 Task of the Day)


Poetry is difficult to understand sometimes because very often its language is indirect. The busy reader wants to read through a write-up and understand it’s meaning without doing any extra work, and sometimes avoids poetry since it demands commitment and energy.

The truth is that apart from the hidden meanings of verses, poetry offers a beautiful sound of language and an emotional insight in the subject matter, drawn from the poet’s perspective.

The poem “Keep Personalizing” is a beautiful expression of love. I was drawn to it as soon as I set my eyes on it. The poet, Ma Socorro, uses words and sound of language to express the thoughts of someone feeling highly loved and content enough to give reasons for being in such a beautiful mood.



Welcome to lovehappily.wordpress.com!

I am pleased to have you here. This is the right site for you if you want to learn more about how to engage in a healthy relationship with your partner. The topics center on the little things that make a relationship fail and the little things that make it work.

In every relationship, each partner has something to offer. What do you offer?

This question might seem very simple, but does what you offer make your partner cry or laugh?

You need to know, if not you will not know how you affect your partner. And the result of not knowing how you affect your partner is that you would breakup sooner than you envisaged.

Who I am

Call me Paul. My author’s name is P. A. Owala.

P. A. Owala is the Author of the books: Marry Me: How You Make Love to Me; I Know Why You Broke Up with your Spouse; White Man’s Footprint, and Ladies of The Woods. He worked as a Piping Engineer for an EPC company in Nigeria for a few years and then relocated to Germany in 2010 for his MSc. in Metallurgical Engineering and had his major in Materials Science of Steel. Presently, he works and takes delight in his spare time at home, nurturing his hobby as a writer.


I am ambitious and very optimistic about the future, and I hope that one day I will be able to affect people positively, with my writings.


I have a good disposition and an infectious smile.

What I like

I like to meet people especially those who can impact my life positively. I like my friends, and I give them the honour that they deserve.

I like to see two people in a happy relationship.

What I don’t like

I don’t like when people in a relationship cry of heartbreak.

How I spend my free time

I have a very active spare time, and I indulge in personal development through reading, writing, and travelling. In addition, I use this time to inspire others by my unequivocal level of motivation in my daily activities. I keep fit by exercising daily, and I love chess game.

Why I am Here

I am here to let the world know what I do, to let those in relationships know that there are potent ways to make them have that happiness which was the sole reason why they chose to have partners.

I am here also to enhance my online presence.

What I blog about

I write about Marriage and Relationship. Little things matter in a relationship and how they affect the bond which you and your partner share is what matters to you.

Who I will like to connect with via my blog

I write, and I want to be read. This blog is for you if you plan to find a partner someday for a healthy and a romantic relationship.

I will appreciate an interactive session with you. Feel free to express your opinion: Criticize me constructively as well as tell me what you liked, and what you didn’t. Let me know that you stopped by my blog. Your contribution is very important to me. Let us do this together. There is a lot to gain in sharing knowledge.

What I hope to have accomplished if I blog successfully throughout the next one year

The reason why two people in search of true love come together to form a partner is because they want to be happy.

I want aspiring couples and those that are already in a relationship to have the happiness they desire, by opening their eyes to the things that seem little in a relationship but have the capacity to destroy it.

I want them to have the working solution to the one thing almost everyone wants a genuine answer to–marriage.

I want to have followers, and also to be able to follow talented bloggers.

How often do I post?

Post on Working Relationships: Wednesdays and Sundays.

Post on Love Poems: Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays.

Post on Love Stories (fiction): Mondays and Fridays.

Thank you for stopping by. Have fun.

Yours sincerely,