Love Talk Of The Week: Choosing A Partner-The Mindset Of Your Future Partner.

 

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The mindset of your future partner

You won’t know the mindset of your future partner if you don’t spend time together.

Conversation is the key in this section. You must talk about everything. Talk about your goals, your plans, your daily troubles, and how much you care for each other.

Check for one’s honesty if you can, temperaments, and how one interacts with one’s family and with yours too.

The aim of doing this is to know if you have the same personalities. Having the same personalities will enable you to be doing things with one accord.

You need to really agree in order to carry your relationship forward smoothly.

 

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Love Talk of The Week: Choosing A Partner: Double-Checking Your Views

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Double-checking your views

Over-excitement about your blooming relationship can make you attach sentiments in your analysis of its true nature.

Your opinion about your potential spouse is very important, but do not make your big decision without letting trusted members of your family or friends weigh in on your relationship.

You will have some vital clues about your prospective spouse when you do that.

Introduce him or her to them after a few dates, and you will be glad you did if they gave you their sincere observations.

Their contributions will either increase your confidence in the relationship, or warn you about an impending danger which is not visible to you.

 

 

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Love Talk of The Week: Choosing A partner

The two-way chemistry

The instant chemistry you feel for your prospective spouse on your first date, or at the first time you meet, does not give an assurance that he or she feels the same for you.

You will make a mistake by concluding that your prospective spouse is attracted to you simply because you are attracted to him or her.

You know yourself, and you are sure of what you feel inside, but you need some time to be sure of what your prospective spouse feels. So, be observant as you string yourselves along.

Relationship or marriage is about two people, not about one person.

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LOVE TALK OF THE WEEK: Choosing A Partner

 

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The equality issue

Love is better served when two people play it with a mindset that they are equal, not when one thinks that the other is a servant.

Studies have shown that a master-servant relationship is not the best route to happiness.

You cannot give your best in a relationship where you think you are the master (Main Character) and your partner is the servant.

More so, you cannot feel fulfilled in a relationship when you think you are being used as a servant because you will feel used.

Never start a relationship with anyone who believes he or she is doing you a favour by opting to date you.

 

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LOVE TALK OF THE WEEK: Choosing A Partner

 

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The platform issue

Two people on different platforms cannot do much since they do not have much in common.

The fact that they are not on the same level shows that they will grow apart when they come together and try to maintain their stances, unless one of them is ready to join the other on his or her platform, or that both of them are ready to move to a new platform where they can carry each other along from the outset.

Never start a love affair with anyone who thinks or acts as if either of you are not on the same level, or that the level he or she occupies is higher than yours, because you will be marginalized and that will lead to unrest in your union.

 

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LOVE TALK OF THE WEEK: Choosing Your Partner

 

Ein junges Paar im Bett hat Probleme und Krise. Scheidung und Trennung.

 

I will like to continue with the second 10-point check for your choice. Wait for my upcoming book if you want to know more about where I stopped last week: Be careful when you do this because we have two sets of people in a dating game: the good guys and the bad guys.

2. The time factor

No one wants to invest time in anything that is worthless.

What that means is that anyone who does not appreciate you from the onset will not want to be there for you.

Don’t let the excuse “I am busy” fool you.

Taking the decision to start a relationship is also taking the decision to spend time with someone special. So don’t laugh when your prospective partner does not keep appointments with you because it may mean one thing: you are not special.

Solve the time issue first before you make your big decision. Don’t start a relationship with anyone who will not have time for you.

 

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LOVE TALK OF THE WEEK: CHOOSING A PARTNER

 

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PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES OF YOUR PROSPECTIVE PARTNER

You cannot make the right choice if you do not know what you want.

Knowledge of what you want will enable you judge correctly when you see what you do not want.

Ask yourself, how do I want my partner to look? If you can answer this simple question correctly, then you will be one step closer to what you really want.

Do not choose one whose physical attributes do not meet your specification, unless one has other good qualities which can compensate for that.

How would you know that one has good qualities when your focus is on assessing one’s physical attributes if they appealed to you?

Be careful when you do this because we have two sets of people in a dating game: the good guys and the bad guys…

It continues from here next Sunday.

 

 

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LOVE TALK OF THE WEEK: Choosing Your Partner

 

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Choose your partner carefully because from this decision you will have either happiness or misery.

 

The first thing to bear in mind when you choose a partner is that you are choosing many things: your intimate partner; your talking buddy; your eating companion; your parenting partner; your career counselor; your travel, leisure, and retirement friend; and someone you will see when you are in your best and bad moods.

 

Being aware of that is like being aware of what you want to go into, and it will serve as a guide in any decision you want to take.

 

You can use these ten-point checks to make your choice: I will post each one every week. Stay tuned.

 

 

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Love Talk Of The Week: What do you want from your partner?

 

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All you want from your partner is happiness.

But sometimes there are obstacles that come along the way and try to make you feel something different.

You should let your partner still feel the love you have for them when you feel something different, not only when things go the way you want them to go.

The idea is that the love you give can still attract your partner towards you. In that way you will be close enough to affect them with the part you play in your relationship.

In other words, let your partner still feel the love you have for them during disputes.

With this mindset, you will be in the right position to seek solutions through dialogue rather than just calling it quit.

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LOVE TALK OF THE WEEK: IS YOUR BEST GOOD ENOUGH?

 

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Marriage or a lasting relationship is not a day’s journey.

Who you really are will be visible to your partner when you begin to live together.

Your partner will cry out if you are not interesting or if you are not the kind of person anyone can reckon with?

Is your best good enough to make your partner hanker for more of you?

You should be ready to give your very best in order to make your partner to have rest of mind. This is usually needed for them to keep having faith in you, and to have the strength needed to carry you along and to tolerate those things that are not so cool about you.

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