Ask Yourself What Went Wrong

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Sometimes, your partner can change or become something else because of the way you behave.

Therefore, accessing yourself when your partner does something you never expected of them before losing your temper is an indication that you have the maturity required to live a healthy relationship.

Maturity in marriage is not about your age but your ability to see true problems, tell where they sprouted from, and having the zeal to seek the necessary remedies instead of letting them break you.

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The True Test Of Your Understanding Of Your Partner

 

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Understanding your partner is very important, but most couples think that they understand themselves simply because they have lived together for a few years without engaging in any quarrel.

Ask yourself, how will I behave when my partner does something very bad to me? Will I give them the chance to clarify things, or will I just assume that we do not have anything in common anymore?

The true test of your understanding of your partner usually comes when they hurt you and you are in a situation to either end the relationship or seek for the reason why they behaved the way they did, despite the love both of you share.

Taking out time to ask questions about the strange behaviour of your spouse towards you, and seeking possible solutions if necessary can help put you in a good state to decide what to do about your relationship.

 

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Greediness

Greed has a way of making you indulge in yourself so much that you may step away from your partner without realizing it, and the result is that you and your partner are not anymore on the same page.

 

In such a state, you are likely not to care enough because of your fixation on how to care for yourself first.

 

The bad thing with greed is that it may make you lose your goodwill, not plan well especially in terms of the money you and your partner make, and not have enough of everything you have. You are likely to squander what you have without any plan for the future, borrow from your partner and other sources in order to satisfy your voracious desire.

 

Avoid being greedy by thinking more about you and your partner instead of yourself. By doing that you will be in a good state to plan well for the future growth of your relationship and still have your goodwill intact.

 

 

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Unfaithfulness to Your Partner

 

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Love is shared well by two people when they are in love with each other. When two people come together to start a relationship, they do so with the hope of being happy with each other, and many things go wrong when they do not attain this happiness. For most couples, unfaithfulness becomes their major problem in their relationship.

 

Unfaithfulness to your partner will make you to tell lies repeatedly, until they find out the truth. Your mind is divided when you think of two people at the same time. The implication is that you will not be composed in handling your interactions with your partner. Such attitudes leave a big question mark on your partner’s mind and they will see a different you rather than the real person that they had fallen for.

 

Do not do what you will not want someone to do to you. The question is: Did you plan to lie to your partner prior to when you started your relationship? The answer is “no” for most couples.

 

Marriage or a relationship with someone you adore so much is enough to go well if both of you understand each other to the extent that you know what is required of you, how to romantically interact, how to argue constructively as well as attack whatever the issue is instead of attacking yourselves, and how to forgive and sincerely carry each other along.

 

The inability to meet up with those vital ingredients of a happy relationship leaves you with the possibility of thinking about other options which will make you drift away gradually from your partner.

 

 

 

 

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Telling a lie to your partner

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Telling a lie to your partner just because you want to communicate or make them feel proud of you truncates the growth of your relationship. The consequence is devastating, except they live a life of lies as well. Even liars get angry when they realize that someone has lied to them.

In any way, telling a lie to your partner kills the trust they have for you whenever they realize what you have done. Once trust is dead in your relationship, your communication dies too and then comes gradual rejection, and then a total breakdown of your relationship if nothing drastic is done to change the situation.

Carrying your partner along is all about opening up to them in every activity within and outside your home, and ensuring that you are on the same page. Anything short of that may put you in a tight situation where you have to lie to your partner in order to maintain what you share.

The truth is that by making the choice to tell one lie, just one lie, you will keep telling lies to conceal it, and your attitude may even change for the worse.

Not carrying your spouse along may force you to keep secrets and all you do in such a state is to tell lies and behave in strange ways which may make your partner to be afraid of you instead of to be in love with you. Avoid this kind of behaviour by being open to your partner from day one of your relationship with them. You will have nothing to hide if you have been sincere from the beginning, and you may not have any cause to be weird.

 

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Your actions toward your partner

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What you do towards your partner has the tendency to either uplift or tamp them down more than what others do to them.

You cannot be with someone and expect not to affect them in anyway, or expect other’s actions to impact them more than yours do.

The question is: How do you want to affect your partner?

The fact that your partner has given you their hearts by choosing to be with you means that they will be very hurt or highly encouraged when you make them feel worthless or something meaningful, respectively.

My advice is: Make them feel meaningful because it will only pay you, no matter how you look at it.

 

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