Daily Prompt: This is your song.



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The song I chose is “When a Man Loves a Woman” by Percy Sledge.


There’s a verse that I cherish so much because it’s powerful and insightful.


“Can’t keep his mind on nothin’ else. He’d trade the world for a good thing he’s found.”


Love can make you focus on only one person

Love can make you stop searching for happiness else where

Love can make you feel good because you have found all the good things in just one person

Love can make you see only the good in your loved one

Love can make you forgive all wrongs

Love can make you respect your loved one

Love can make you make sacrifices to keep your loved one happy

Love can make you give all that you have to your loved one


Hold on to your precious love because Life is Good when you love the right person.


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This post is in response to the daily prompt: This is your song

Sharing Your Problems and Listening to Your Partner



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Your personal problems are a part of you, and you have the choice to share them with your partner or keep them to yourself. The truth about keeping them to yourself when you have a partner is that both of you are not close, and that may tell a lot about how happy you are in your relationship.


Sharing can only come about between two or more people who are willing to share; you can’t force it. But what are partners for? Relationship is about two people, and these two people must be able to carry each other along before they can be on the same page and be able to nurture their union in a way that encourages intimacy.


Sharing your problems with someone you love can make you feel good if they listen, empathize with you whether good or bad, and help proffer solutions when needed.


Shutting down your partner or cleverly changing their topic of discussion may look little and simple, but it is as damaging to your relationship as it is hurtful to their feelings.


Listening to whatever your partner has to say before speaking is a good attitude for the growth of your relationship because it will give them the impression that you love, respect, and appreciate them.


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How do you interact so that your relationship or marriage can move forward? (Final Part)



To interact effectively, you must first do the following:


Respect means having a high opinion of your partner, or making the person feel valued. It does not mean making them feel stupid around you. It does not mean making them feel the need to change who they are, or the need to become who you want them to be.

Respect has to be about who the person is, not who you wish they were. Your idea about them can affect the way you feel about them. And how you feel about someone can affect how you speak to them, or how you treat them.

The tone of your voice and your choice of words constitute the differences between respect and disrespect. You cannot tell someone to get lost and still claim that you have respect for them. You cannot yell at them and still have the same view that you respect them.

Your ability to attract your partner towards you after every conversation without having to apologize to them for anything is a good indication that you are respectful.


Stay tuned for the next post on interaction.


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How do you interact so that your relationship or marriage can move forward? (Part 1)




How you interact with your partner can determine how happy or sad both of you are going to be. Wrong interactions between a couple can make them doubt the purpose of their union and if they ever liked each other before they came together.

What do you say to your spouse daily? Continue reading




The problems you and your partner have would remain unresolved when you have done wrong and have refused to apologize.

This kind of behaviour causes friction in your relationship, and the consequence is detrimental to the growth of your union.

Small insignificant things matter.

For a healthy relationship, ensure that you take responsibilities for your actions and apologize in good time.

Don’t keep doing what you are sorry for.




Saying You Are Sorry

Saying Sorry


Be sure that you are truly sorry, and henceforth you are ready to do the right thing, if you must apologize for your wrongs. Saying you are sorry all the time over one problem can mean many things to your spouse:

Firstly, your spouse may think that you are taking him or her for granted and such feelings have the power of making the person to not see anything good in what you are doing because you are not on the same page. The person might take you for granted as well, or react aggressively and an argument might ensue.

Lastly, you may be sending the message that you are not responsible, not good for any sane person, and not open to change, which most people are willing to do for the better way forward when they are with someone they cherish.

Different people can feel different things, but the result of singing “I’m sorry” all the time over one issue usually send wrong signals to your spouse.


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If I Were Her Hubby

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If I were her hubby, I’d be lovely,

Make her my queen, her looks sixteen and clean;

I’d gild her crown, take her to town with glee,

Sing and cling to her, as seen on my screen.

If I were her hubby, I’d make her laugh,

Won’t act out of spite, despite her glitches;

Above all, love her in full, not in half,

And celebrate her birth where she chooses;

I won’t push her aside, or leave her side,

Fail to provide for her and our children,

Or torment her to dent her well-prized pride,

Even if she’s stiff, sick, thick, and barren.

In fact, in life, we will be the happiest

Until I lie still in furrows of dust.

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